...are harder than others. (^_^)
Some days have us striving in ways that can make us look silly or make us frustrated for lack of progress. Some days we get our hands caught in the cookie jar or maybe we make a clean getaway, only to feel guilty later. I’m sure this cute pup has been in those shoes before and will again, but I'm no better. While this picture is adorable to me, bringing up these light thoughts, it is also a deeper example of how people operate as well.
We desire and we act on those desires; this much we would all agree on, but would you agree that we ‘only’ act on desire? An action is a result of feeling; all action requires a motivation which is the driving reason behind the action. There are only then two types of motivations and these are selfish and selfless desire. We often think we understand this, but do we in a minute to minute, day to day, kind of way? Selfish acts do not deny self and selfless acts are when we act for another without personal gain, perhaps even personal loss. This is trickier than it seems which is why it is worth talking about. Is it selfless to give away what you don’t need? No, it is no personal loss to give that which has no true value to you. It is only truly selfless when it is a loss for you, so the point is that in a selfless act you have no interest in (or are seeking no benefit) to self. Is it selfless to “do the right thing”? Not if you’re doing the right thing so as to not feel guilty or to avoid the sin of apathy. This motivation is an internal benefit and is at the core of the decision, hardly selfless motivation.
The point to all this is that selfish people are hardly aware of the depths of their selfishness. I am with you all on this; the accuser is accused as well. Still, it is true and worth investigation as Christ-followers. What is our deep motivation behind each decision? How do we benefit from each act? Even in what seems like a loss are we still benefiting? I’m sure we can all name a person who acts and thinks like the pup above, but we fail to notice when we do the same because we aren’t doing it with a gadget, an outfit, or our finances. Ours is an unseen selfish…
Here are some thoughts on self-denial that are worth your consideration.
More can be found about Selflessness (Self-Denial) here.
-Selflessness requires a lack of benefit to self, even to personal loss.
-Selflessness is not such if no true loss is met; it is at best a kind act.
-Selflessness cannot come without self-denial.
-Selflessness (or self-denial) and Selfishness cannot exist at the same time; one negating the other totally.
-Self-denial does not occur to benefit self, but to benefit others.
-Self-denial does not come from personal desires, but from acting as God has commanded; for that namesake.



